On One Hand

September 8, 2006

Five Weeks

Filed under: Uncategorized — ononehand @ 3:34 pm

This guy I went on a couple dates with five or so weeks ago just randomly messaged me to tell me he doesn’t know what he wants and isn’t interested in pursuing anything anymore.

I figure I kind of already had the idea after hanging out just twice – and then spending five weeks without talking – that we weren’t going for a dating-type relationship.

“Thanks for being honest,” I said. But I had to be an ass and also said “I was just looking for hookups anyway,” which absolutely isn’t true but it’s something I say sometimes to save face. I guess I’d rather look like an asshole than look hurt.



  1. Wow I wonder what made him message you after five weeks of nothing. I guess you stick in people’s minds?

    Comment by jdhenchman — September 8, 2006 @ 9:55 pm | Reply

  2. I guess it was a sort of no-win situation. At least you both “saved face.”

    Comment by randomcha — September 9, 2006 @ 2:01 pm | Reply

  3. I think even if you didn’t add in that jab, he’s the one who looks like an asshole. He thought you were interested in pursuring something and then waits 5 weeks to even speak to you again, only to tell you that he’s not? What a catch!

    Comment by nokturnelle — September 11, 2006 @ 5:16 am | Reply

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